It was never my first choice of places to move, but the ex was jobless and was offered a great position. Ten months later, I packed my bags and moved 1,000 miles away to the state where people go to die: Florida. I generally get two reactions from people when I explain how I hated that ass backwards state. Its either, “how could you not love it, the weather, the pace, the beaches” or I get, “oh that place is hellish, the weather, the pace, the beaches!” Yes, the beaches were hellish, at least on the gulf side. The sun is always strong, the beaches have no breeze and the water is always as hot as it is outside. So you sit, baking, with no relief only to go into the gulf and realize you are still sweating. NASTY.
This East Coaster's HELL
I never expected to experience culture shock moving within the United States. For goodness sake, I lived in France for six months while in college and I didn’t have as hard of a time adjusting! Lets just say it was very difficult for me to make friends, everything was too spread out, the pace of life was awfully slow and well, frankly, I was just too young to live in that state. I could go on and on about what I hated , but I’d like to focus more on the positive…. I got the HELL out.
As my so-called life deteriorated due to pure douchebaggery from the EX, it became apparently clear that I needed to move. Part of me felt like a failure, for not being about to move on while still living in the state. As fate would have it lay-offs at my company forced my hand. Luckily, I was still employed, but my small support group of friends got the axe. My closest friend in Florida had to move across the state for financial reasons. Fast forward six weeks, and two of my closest friends and one of my brothers (the List brother) flew down to help me move back to Philadelphia, the city I love.
I was born and raised in Philadelphia. Went away to school at Penn State, lived in France, moved back to Philly and lived in Manayunk, did my time in hell and back to Philly I went. Now I had been thinking about moving to either Philly or DC (DC is an amazing city), but lucked out with a job in Center City Philadelphia. I now know that I am an East Coast city girl through and through. I like the pace, the diversity of people, being able to take public transportation, live our country’s history, eat in some of the country’s best restaurants, be close to other major cities like New York and DC. I love Philly. I really, truly do!
And since I feel like a girl in love…I’d like to share some amazing pictures of my city.
The Ben Franklin Parkway was designed to emulate the Champs-Élyées (I still remember my French accent keyboard shortcuts! kudos to me).
Aerial View of the Art Museum, Ben Franklin Parkway and the cityscape
Credit: Photo by B. Krist for GPTMC – Source: GoPhila.com
The beautiful Center City Philadelphia skyline from the Schuylkill (Pronounced Skoolkill) River.
I LIVE IN THIS CITY! AMAZING
Photo by B. Krist for GPTMC – Source: GoPhila.com
Aww, the city loves me back! This is Love Park, you may have seen this as my Avatar from time to time.
Love Park!
Credit: Photo by J. Smith for GPTMC – Source: GoPhila.com
Now that I have shared some amazing photos of Philadelphia with you and a little bit of my love for the city, I am happy to say this one is crossed off the list.
Florida, sorry that I hate you so, but don’t worry people are getting closer to death each year and making you their home.
Anyone else hatin’ on Florida? Do you love Philly too?
Posted in Love this City, Out of Hell
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